SOCIAL SKYDIVING ACADEMY
Singapore’s Top Dating Coach for Men
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Meet and Attract Women from a Healthy Place
Channel News Asia Feature:
Singapore’s #1 Dating Coach
WHAT IS SOCIAL SKYDIVING?
‘Social Skydiving’ is the idea of placing yourself in challenging social situations in order to build your confidence, communication skills and social skills. We utilise self-developmental strategies and psychology to equip Singaporean men with the skillset to succeed in dating. Our core values are being honest and authentic with women, we strongly condemn deception, manipulation or misogyny.
We do not believe in matchmaking which is simply ‘giving man a fish’, instead we ‘teach man to fish’ by imparting clients with the principles of attraction so they build their identity, take life by the reins and use their skillset to succeed with women on their own merit.
Hundreds of doctors, engineers, professionals and entrepreneurs
have improved their romantic and social lives with our courses
Hundreds of Singaporean men have depended on us to change their lives in powerful and significant ways. That’s a tremendous responsibility we are thankful for and do not take for granted. We advocate for personal growth and development. Having dedicated our lives to helping men meet and date the women of their dreams with our online courses, live bootcamps, private coaching and VIP coaching.
We’ve worked hard to create a business we’d want to trust our dating lives with. We hope you will too.
TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE TODAY WE MAKE MEETING AND DATING WOMEN INTUITIVE AND NATURAL
ATTRACT WOMEN USING HONESTY AND AUTHENTICITY
Taking actionable steps towards meeting and dating the women of your dreams takes courage and release of the ego. Chances are you’re too busy to put in time to find the right woman and would benefit greatly by working with a dating coach. Social Skydiving is an all-encompassing academy specializing in coaching Singaporean men to cultivate genuine connections with women.
EVEN OLYMPIC CHAMPIONS NEED COACHES
The powerful change Social Skydiving brings in your life can be scary. It’s easy to procrastinate on your dreams; to tell yourself everything will magically fall into place someday and the one will appear. Here’s the brutal truth, until you take massive action, absolutely nothing will change. Reading books and advice from articles on the internet can help at the start of your journey. But without putting theory into practice with the guidance of an experienced coach, you’ll find yourself back at square one. Reading about something and implementing it in real life effectively are two completely different things. We are all about tangible, observable results that can be measured.
INVEST IN YOURSELF AND YOUR FUTURE
Social Skydiving Academy is consistently ranked as the #1 dating coach in Singapore. Our mission is to empower men with communication skills and dating strategies to find greater happiness and fulfillment in life.
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OUR STORY
Hello, my name is Malcolm Bay. Relationship and Dating Coach here at Social Skydiving which I founded in 2015. I started my journey of personal development as an extremely shy person. In fact, I was a nerd who suffered from clinically diagnosed social anxiety, skinny with negative body image issues, had zero confidence in myself and non-existent self-esteem to boot. It was a dark and troubling time in my life. The isolation I experienced from not knowing how to interact with people caused me to linger in a depressive state for years. As a result, I used computer game addiction as a coping mechanism.
Then something happened, I got tired of being a loser and feeling lonely all the time. I realised I could continue to wallow in self-pity for the rest of my life OR take massive, determined action. Thus I made the decision to learn how to be a confident and social man to get a girlfriend in my life. I was so desperate to find one true thing that really works that I ended up emptying my entire savings as a student working part-time. Purchasing pretty much every product on the topic of dating and engaging the mentorship of multiple dating coach and relationship consultant.
However, after I consumed this mass of knowledge, I was disappointed to realise I could not find this “one true thing” that actually works. Although I did get some benefit from all this knowledge, many of these teachings advocated for me to pretend to be someone I’m not. Furthermore they used tricks to manipulate others which was morally unethical to me. Ultimately I gained little to no results as many of their teachings are only usable in the Western context. I realised they did not apply in Singapore at all.
That was then I decided to figure it out for myself by turning my life into a giant experiment. I would come up with hypotheses about how social dynamics, interpersonal interactions and attraction works and test them rigorously myself in real life. The start of my journey went horribly wrong, I met with countless failures and painful lessons. I made pretty much every mistake someone could make and had no results to show for. It was a difficult time in my journey, however, the pain and suffering led me to revelations on how to evoke innate change and evolve into the greater version of myself.
As I started to understand the revelations and epiphanies I experienced. My personal and dating life transformed exponentially the more I applied them. After I really figured things out, I could easily form genuine connections with attractive women and managed to lead the life I have always dreamed of.
More than that, I was able to help other men improve their own lives as well. I decided to start teaching others the same way I wished someone would have taught me when I started on my journey. For the past 8 years, I have dedicated my life as a dating coach to help hundreds of Singaporean men. I do this because it is incredibly rewarding and fulfilling for me.
With the assistance of my elite team of instructors and wing girls. I have been imparting Singaporean men with the tools, strategies, and techniques to accelerate their growth and overcome any obstacles they may encounter on their journey towards improving their romantic and social lives. Rather than provide pieces to a puzzle, I create individualized blueprints to success for my students.
My specialization is in personal growth, self-development and coaching others to become a confident and charismatic man. The mission of Social Skydiving is to empower Singaporean men with the social skills, emotional intelligence, and dating and relationship strategies to find greater happiness and fulfillment in life.
WHY GET A DATING COACH?
Learning to get better with women helps men gain confidence in themselves and get into fulfilling long-term relationships. I’m not surprised to hear skepticism on dating coach — and rightfully so. In society many people only see the surface applications of getting good at attracting the opposite gender. Nobody likes thinking that we all evolved from hunter-gatherers and have biologically hardwired triggers for attraction; and that we can model our traits and behaviors to give us an unfair advantage in the competitive dating market to increase our success in dating exponentially.
Unlike topics like math or science, dating is more of a “learn on the job” kind of skill. We learn how to get the attention of a girl we’re interested in, hold a conversation and ask her out by doing it. But not everyone learns the same lessons the same way. Often, they take a whole lifetime to refine, and most men never master them.
Hundreds of our students from over the years have had success from using our principles. Notice I said principles — not tactics. Principles underlie everything you do and are imperative to long-term transformation. For example, I can teach you a cool negotiation script — a tactic — and it will probably work. But once you use it, you’ll have changed nothing long term. That only comes with automating actions and behaviors by changing your overall mindset and perspectives.
As a dating coach, we empower our students with honest and authentic ways to cultivate genuine connections. We love and respect women, hence we demand that our students do the same and expect nothing less. Instead of resorting to deception and manipulation, we advocate self-development to become the greater version of ourselves. We help gentlemen of integrity who want to meet amazing women, if you are looking for deceptive tricks to manipulate women, Social Skydiving Academy is not for you.
IN OUR SOCIETY:
- We all think we ‘should’ know about meeting and dating women — but nobody really teaches us
- Friends give us random “tips and tricks” but we never have holistic, systematic understanding of the entire process
- It’s taboo to talk about wanting to be with attractive women — and it’s taboo to talk about how we’re failing with women
In fact many of our students were initially unsure about having a dating coach when they first heard about us. That was until they experienced first hand how we were able to help them transform their lives entirely. Many would later describe Social Skydiving as a major turning point in their lives.
OUR COMMUNITY
SUCCESS STORIES
Wee Kiat - Self-Employed (44)
Xiang Yu - Sales Executive (26)
I like that what i learned is specially for being in Singapore. Other stuff i read online are always for other country. After i learn how to make nice conversations with girls and attract them. Talking with my female colleagues and female friends become so much easy.
By using all the things i learn i manage to meet my new girlfriend during a company training event. I managed to talk with her and get her number. We went on many many dates which i planned with the help of Malcolm before she become my girlfriend.
I am happy i found Social Skydiving Academy or i won’t able to get my current girlfriend!
Nicholas - Student (21)
I have many female friends and I have no problem talking to girls. But whenever I’m around a girl that’s super hot I freeze up and get awkward. Malcolm really helped me a lot with being comfortable around hot girls. Talking and being around them made me see hot girls are also normal human beings. Interacting with them like normal people is no difficult and it’s better than trying to impress them all the time.
Thanks to the help of all the things I learnt from Malcolm, I’ve been on countless dates with many attractive girls. I really believe in the work he and his team are doing after they changed my dating life.
Ryan - Marketing Professional (34)
Before I started with Social Skydiving, I had been concentrating on my career and had no dating life for a long time. I always thought that sooner or later the right girl will appear in my life. So I waited for her to appear for many years and I felt that I needed to do something different or I will just keep waiting and waiting.
We learnt how to meet, attract and intereact with women and we also learnt how to applied our own conversation style that is unique to our personality. Soon I had many interactions, gradually improving each time under the close guidance of Malcolm. He walks the talk and shows it to me with real life examples instead of just talking about it. After seeing at how it’s done in real life, it is so much easier to learn and understand how the whole dating thing works. Soon I started dating a few girls I met through my new skills and chose the perfect girl for me.
Without going through Social Skydiving fore sure I won’t be able to get to where I am today. It’s funny to be the one choosing which girl is the most suitable for me as usually it is the girl that chooses the guy. The coaches at Social Skydiving really genuinely wish to help me learn all the skills I needed to connect with women and i’m really thankful for all their help.
I was initially skeptical about engaging a dating coach. But all my doubts vanished when I saw the in-field demonstrations by them. Seeing really is believing. From then on I decided to put 100% effort into learning from them. I practiced all the skills and techniques I learnt without fail. Then I very quickly started to see improvement and results.
My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2years now all thanks to the guidance of Malcolm and his team. I still keep in contact with them through the community meetups and gatherings to get relationship advice. I’m really thankful for all their help. Social Skydiving was the best thing that could have happened for my love life!